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You Don’t Look like a Christian

It’s Ash Wednesday. And likely that you’ve seen some folks around town who appear unhygienic but in reality have had ashes imposed on their foreheads to signify the beginning of Lent- the 40 days leading up to Easter.



A friend recently commented to me- “If I saw you in a crowded restaurant I wouldn’t guess you were a Christian. You don’t look like a Christian.”  This gave me pause to wonder- “what do people think a Christian looks like anyways?”  On Ash Wednesday it might seem a little more apparent than usual. A Christian- Catholic or Protestant could look like this:



Or this:


Possibly this:


And yeah, this awesome guy too…


Ash Wednesday is meant to remind us that “from dust you were made and from dust you will return” beginning a season of repentance over sin and brokenness in our own lives and in the world.  For others they tweeted that #AshWednesday is a day that induces a myriad of feelings:

#Ashwednesday The day that I know which obnoxious people to avoid.

Every Ash Wednesday I just realize how bad priests are at drawing

Forgetting its Ash Wednesday makes for a very confusing and offputting walk home #SlackerCatholic #SorryJ 

Ash Wednesday forehead smears are especially strange to me….

They ash-wednesday’ed this cat’s whole face 🙁


Many Christians I know are afraid to share their faith because they don’t want to seem like the close-minded, boring, anti-gay, judgmental person a lot of people think Christians are. They don’t say anything, they keep quiet about how Jesus is healing their relationships, teaching them to forgive, bringing joy in suffering and giving them a desire and action to pursue justice.  Amazing stories that get lived out every day that aren’t told. But if you observe Ash Wednesday, you are outing yourself as a Christian. Or at least a devout person. Or someone whose mom made them go to church. Or someone that didn’t shower and is pleased to realize no one will notice they look like pigpen from Charlie Brown because it’s Ash Wednesday.

I’ve been thinking and talking with my friend and fellow blogger Grace about what we want our blogs to be all about. To be known for what we are for rather than what we are against as we live out faith in Jesus.  I want Sidewalk Theologian to show real pictures of what Christians are like- not the extreme left, right and crazy Christians often portrayed in the media. So I’m shifting my blog focus to tell more of stories about people who are following Jesus, sharing his love in word and deed and inviting others to follow him into changing the world. Occasionally you will get the funsies post about fashion in part because I mostly shop at thrift stores to live a simple yet fashionable life. A friend has told me “you have the gift for thrift.”  So once or twice a month I’ll be showing off my Macklemore-esqe skills and show you how to look great, live simply to enable you to give generously.thriftshop500x394

Blog friends, I want you to be inspired to live out your faith in bold and compelling ways because of the stories of ordinary sidewalk theologians- people who are willing to share Jesus in the midst of their everyday lives.  Moms, students, retired people, businessmen and women, people who you interact with everyday that are seeking to serve and share Jesus. I realize that this will reach a specific niche of people and honestly at the stage of life I’m at- as a mom, wife, part-time worker, lover of internet memes, film and fashion that’s the best and most authentic place I can speak into.

I know “evangelism” seems like a dirty word conjuring images of horrible golden-haired (my hair is dyed platinum so I think I don’t count here) televangelists who are out to scam people out of their money and hyper-emotionalize faith.  So let’s do something- change it with me and live out your faith as a sidewalk theologian. Dare to talk about Jesus. Dare to live out your faith. Not because you should, but because he is doing such cool things in your life you can’t NOT talk about it or do something that demonstrates your love for him. Like give a cat ashes because you’re so excited for Lent to begin. (well, maybe not that.)

I plan on continuing to share my own story but I want to tell yours as well.  Many of us have incredible stories but aren’t quite sure of how to share them or feel like it would be prideful or weird to share them. Well friend, if you are a sidewalk theologian or want to become one leave a comment, email me a story you want to share or subscribe to this blog to have poppin’ fresh emails sent to you each Wednesday when I post a new blog. And please, if you feel hype about a story tweet it, pin it, share it on Facebook, send it to your cousin’s brother, momma, and neighbor Johnny down the street. I want more people to see what following Jesus is really like instead of the weird version they have in their heads.  What I do isn’t special. It isn’t extraordinary. It’s simply sharing about who Jesus is and what it looks like to follow him. Let’s do that together as sidewalk theologians.



  • April

    I love that Thrift Shop video! 🙂

    Like your direction here.

    I’m sad to report that I don’t have any life changing Jesus stories to share. I sometimes wonde if I’m one of God’s “waterers.” I water the seeds that someone has planted by showing them Christ’s love, forgiveness, and truth. But it’s someone else who sees the plant grow later and then become harvested.

    • Jessica

      I don’t know April- I think a lot of times we have some remarkable things happen in our lives but think they are normal. “watering” stories are important too- coming to Jesus can take a lot of time for people and every stage is important.

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